Let the hive mind of Engadget get that for you.
"I need help! I want a small pocket camcorder but I'm not sure which one to get. I don't want to fall into the hype of the Flip because I worry two hours won't be enough. What should I be looking for when considering a small camcorder and where can I get a good quality one with expandable memory? Thanks!"
Seconded. Check out: http://www.engadget.com/tag/playon
Then be patient on the Blu-ray. There's likely to be lots of "perfectly-fine-for-the-bedroom" Blu-ray players on sale before Christmas (a mere 7 months away) for under $100.